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Wait a Second, Am I Really Saying the Words "Ronald Reagan's Major...
Photo by Flickr user "The Official CTBTO Photostream." Used under a Creative Commons license. Yes, conservative jerk, twice-divorced, serial-deficit-increaser, twice-fathered-children-out-of-wedlock,...
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20 Dollar Bill Parable - A Lovely Fuck You to the "Virginity equals Unchewed...
Front and back of a $20 bill. Image found on Facebook. Origin unknown. This story is a nice fuck you to all the trolls and (often!) hipocritical virginity fetishist stories about fuzzy lollypops,...
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Searching for the Other Elusive Unicorn: Single Mothers Who Reject Men They...
Photo by Flickr user misocrazy. Used under a Creative Commons license. According to Polyamory from the Inside Out in polyamory circles "A unicorn is a mythical beast with a horn. It also refers to a...
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Hey Douthat! What Does It Say About Men If Wanting to Work 8 Hours a Day...
Photo by Flickr user Providence Public Library. Used under a Creative Commons license. No. Seriously! If it's right and proper for men to work only 8 hours a day how can it possibly be decadent for...
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The Real Reason "Traditional Marriage" Thumpers Worry About Same Sex...
Photo by Flickr user Jonathan Wilsson. Used under a Creative Commons license. Gay-rights activist and DailyKos snark-meister "Bill of Portland Maine", commenting on whether he and his partner will...
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More Evidence Misandry is Real But That It Predates Feminism
If one Y (male) chromosome is bad two must be worse, right? Well, no, but it's taken a while for the once very-popular notion to fall out of favor. I've argued frequently allegedly "man hating" beliefs...
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Acknowledgement for Mary Matalan's Point About Gay Marriage Success and...
Should we congratulate conservatives when they correctly say the obvious? I'd say yes. Case in point: Mary Matalin says, correctly, that failed heterosexual marriages are a far greater threat to the...
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So... Why Do They Make Actual Catholic School Girls Actually Wear "Catholic...
Photo by Flickr user lynnfriedman. Used under a Creative Commons license. I'm pretty much always home getting my own kids off to school on weekday mornings. But this morning I needed to go out and get...
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What Women Think About Penises That Probably Don't Occur to Most Men
Photo by Flickr user Anne Petersen. Used under a Creative Commons license.Geekyvamp, commiserating with another woman sex blogger about the number of unsolicited penis photos she gets sent to her...
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So. Spanking. Is It Really So Much a "Girl On the Bottom" Thing That That's...
I’m still so trying to wrap my little brain around the idea that it’s 99% hetero women’s partners spanking them rather than the other way around. No knocks on Em & Lo, who's post about their new...
View ArticleSilence and Socrates: Speaking Out Makes It Harder to "Unknowingly" Do Evil
So. About the various debates about "knowing whether action X, Y, or Z is wrong" going around the world lately. Over on Ozy Frants's new blog a commenter named Joshua Bennett nails the general...
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About Degrees of "Tipsy," Consent, and the Ability to Recognize Consent
Ozy Frantz started a nice conversation about whether "drunk sex" is rape. Since the possible cases under discussion range from one or both parties having only half a glass of wine all the way over to...
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On Guilt or Innocence While Intoxicated
A not completely unreasonable objection to the general assumption that in no- or badgered-consent situations both parties can be equally intoxicated yet one party can be consdered a victim and the...
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Why "Too Drunk to Keep Your Keys" is a Fine Metric for Judging "Too Drunk to...
Responding to my last post, On Guilt or Innocence While Intoxicated a commenter named Samantha who shortens it to Sam at the end pointed out that my argument that the line dividing competence to...
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Whether They're Kardashians or Cardassians, Let’s Stop Claiming that People...
Via Brute Reason, here's a great post about not bashing those you're merely not attracted to from The Polyamorous Misanthrope [L]et’s stop claiming that people we’re not attracted to are “disgusting”:...
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Um, I'm Launching Another Blog Called, For Various Reasons, "The Bad Men...
Photo by Flickr user intvgene. Used under a Creative Commons license. It's not ready for prime time, and maybe never will be. But for reasons great and small I'm going to go ahead and mention that I'm...
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A Long Answer to the Question "How Can Someone Enjoy Lots of Sex Without Shame?"
So the question over at Em & Lo's "Your Call" this week is "How Can a Woman Enjoy Lots of Sex Without Shame?" Specifically: How does one go about feeling better about a very sexual personality? I...
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As You Do to the Least of Your (Frat) Brothers and (Sorority) Sisters:...
Photo by Flickr user cherbert. Used under a Creative Commons license. Heads Up: This post is about blind spots regarding sexual violence and gender assumptions. So... what do we call the activities...
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One More Reason I Stopped Posting Erotic Male Self-Photography
Photo of someone else via Tumblr user GeekyVamp. Reblogged 3,188 times so I'm sure a 3,189th reblog won't hurt. Years ago I used to add naked photos of myself to my posts. This post is about why I...
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Contrarian Take on the Claim that Bikini Waxing is Driving Pubic Lice to...
Photo by Flickr user wanderingmagpie. Used under a Creative Commons license. First Bloomberg News breathily exclaimed Brazilian Bikini Waxes Make Crab Lice Endangered Species. In Save The Pubic Lice!...
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